THE phrase

Okay people, I need your help, here it is...... I want to put a phrase up in my living room or bedroom or maybe both. But I don't know what phrase to put. If you know me well put one you think fits me, or my stage of life right now, or just put one you like. Here is an example, one of my wonderful sisters, I have many, is a talented photographer, she is really the bees knees, but anyway, on her wall in the living room she has the phrase, shoot now I can't remember it exactly, something like Life is like a picture, you develop what you focus on. Or something, but anyway, it fits her perfect and all around it she has pictures of her family and stuff, very cute. (Ames if you are reading this, what does the phrase say again?) Anyway, so post a comment with your phrase or phrases on it. Thanks

Perspective

What is a good phrase that basically says it is all about perspective? I know they say beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but really everything is in the eyes of the beholder isn't it? I am just saying, how we look at things makes a big difference. And how we look at others and ourselves as well. Something to think about is all.

Confidence is sexy

How about this phrase? Do you think confidence is an attractive attribute? If you were being honest would you say you are a confident person? I used to be, and would like to be again. I am a person who likes to listen to others and help them talk out their problems, over the years I think that has gotten to me. Hearing all of their insecurities I think has made me over think things and doubt myself. Also I am married to a very confident person. In fact most Peruvians I have met have this confidence. What they say is fact, no doubts. Sometimes it can be annoying, but it is something that is good to have, helpful in life. When you have confidence in yourselves it is easier for others to have confidence in you also. So for now I am slowly, because I know it really is a process, and something that is mind over matter, working on increasing my level of confidence. It happens over small changes, one little decision at a time. So what ate your thoughts on Confidence? Let's hear them....

Here is one for ya....

Fake it 'till you make it.

What do you think of this one? Does it sound positive or negative to you? Does it feel like this is what you are doing now? what are your thoughts......

Okay so it has been and while.......

But I guess that is what happens when you have three kids, everything that isn't those three kids, sometimes just has to wait. But today I was thinking of something. Can't quite get the phrase, but basically there is a difference between letting yourself go and letting go. I am trying to let go. Let go of the things I can't control, let go of the lesser things. I say lesser because I can't say unimportant, sometimes the things you have to let go are important just less important then other things. Other times they aren't really important at all, but I like to overdue things and control things, so I have to work on letting go of the not important things also. I just have to take a deep breath and say in my mind, life will go on, and it always does. (This is a good thing for me to work on during this time of year, where it is easy to over due and get lost in the less important and un-important things.) So there you go....... let's hear what you got.